By Emeka Blast 
Rudeboy to Men: Don’t Let Davido’s Wedding Make You Feel Behind — You’re Doing Fine
Nigerian music icon Paul Okoye, better known as Rudeboy of P-Square fame, has issued a timely reminder to men across the country not to succumb to societal pressure from high-profile events like Davido’s lavish wedding. In a heartfelt Instagram post on Sunday, August 10, 2025, Rudeboy encouraged his followers to stay grounded, stating, “Don’t let Davido’s wedding pressure you, you’re doing well.” The message, shared amid ongoing buzz about celebrity lifestyles, has resonated widely, sparking conversations on mental health, financial realism, and self-worth in Nigeria’s fast-paced social media era.
Rudeboy’s advice comes weeks after Davido’s extravagant white wedding to Chioma in Miami on August 10, 2025, which reportedly cost $3.7 million and featured global stars, private jets, and opulent displays. The event, dubbed #Chivido2025, set new benchmarks for celebrity nuptials but also triggered envy and self-doubt among many, with some men feeling inadequate for not matching the spectacle. “Marriage is beautiful, but don’t rush or compare,” Rudeboy wrote, adding, “Your time will come. Focus on building yourself first.”
The post, liked over 500,000 times within hours, drew support from fans and celebrities alike. On X, @NaijaGist tweeted, “Rudeboy’s real talk: Davido’s wedding is goals, but don’t let it stress you. You’re doing fine! #NoPressure,” while @EagleEyeNG posted, “Wise words from Rudeboy. In this economy, chasing celebrity weddings is a trap. #RudeboyAdvice.” Singer Tiwa Savage echoed the sentiment, commenting, “Preach! Everyone’s journey is different.” However, some critics, like @TruthSeekerNG, questioned, “Easy for Rudeboy to say—he had his own big wedding. But yeah, pressure is real.”
Psychologists have praised Rudeboy’s message, noting the rise in mental health issues tied to social media comparisons. Dr. Chioma Anah, a Lagos-based therapist, told The PUNCH, “Events like Davido’s wedding amplify FOMO (fear of missing out). Rudeboy’s advice promotes self-acceptance amid Nigeria’s economic challenges.” With 34.6% inflation and youth unemployment at 42%, many young Nigerians struggle with financial stability, making extravagant weddings seem unattainable.
Rudeboy’s own wedding to Ivy Ifeoma in May 2025 was modest compared to Davido’s, focusing on cultural traditions. His post aligns with a growing trend of celebrities advocating mental wellness, following similar messages from Burna Boy and Wizkid on avoiding societal pressures.
